Wednesday, January 30, 2019

Who Is really in charge?


Who Is really in charge?

Chaplain Horace Cutter
ESV Matthew 4:1 Then Jesus was led up by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil. 2 And after fasting forty days and forty nights, he was hungry. 3 And the tempter came and said to him, "If you are the Son of God, command these stones to become loaves of bread."
         If you read the full account from Matthew’s Gospel of Jesus’ temptation in the wilderness, you can see many different lessons.  The fact that the Holy Spirit led Jesus into the wilderness to be tempted.  The love and devotion of Jesus to face the tempter and defeat him.  Jesus’ method of defeating Satan with the written Word of God.  The fact that a person is affected in their spiritual body by what happens in their physical body.  All of these themes and more can be the focus of attention but I would like to point out some thoughts that I pondered while considering this passage. 
            First, Jesus is approached by the tempter who desires to get him to use his innate abilities as the Son of God to gain what we can assume his body wanted most, food.   Many times, we approach life with a sense of our own abilities.  If I can do it for myself, why pray to God about it?  This first counter-move by Jesus was to let Satan know that we do not function in life because we can, but we have been given opportunities, grace and guidance by God himself.  So, the first challenge is to scrutinize my abilities considering what God would have me to do.  Is that your initial question to a certain challenge in life, even when you can…. Should you?  Does God want you to?  Are you in control of you or do you ask God first?
          Second, Jesus is approached by the tempter who desires to get him to manipulate the relationship between the Father and the Son.  "If you are the Son of God, throw yourself down, for it is written, "' He will command his angels concerning you,' and "'On their hands they will bear you up, lest you strike your foot against a stone.'" (Verse 6)   He knows that the relationship between that Father and the Son is the most loving relationship that can be and uses the written Word of God as a reference.  When I think of it deeply, my desire to abuse the relationship with God is just as much a sin as my desire to depend upon other resources.  The relationship that I have with God is not for me to try God’s grace by manipulating Him to use his divine power to support my irresponsible actions.  The relationship that I have with God is initiated by God for me to fulfill the divine purpose that he has for me.  Trying to control God doing something stupid.  Am I trying to control God?

         The third attempt of the devil is what inspired the direction of my thoughts.  The tempter comes to Jesus with a ridiculous offer.  "All these I will give you, if you will fall down and worship me." (Verse 9) Just think about it.  Jesus who is God, the Second person of the Holy Trinity listening to the devil who was kicked out of heaven eons ago, saying, “I am in control of all these kingdoms you know.  I will give you command over all of these kingdoms. I will make you the ruler of these lands”.  My daughter educated me to the picture of Pikacu, from the video games, with a startled look on his face.  The picture is something that you send to someone when the say something that you just cannot believe they were dumb enough to say it.  You may insert the saying, “Are you kidding me?” the Devil at one point in eternity past worshiped the Son along with the Father and the Holy Spirit. Now He offers the kingdoms of the world to this Almighty God….

          Of course, Jesus counters Satan’s offer by proclaiming that God is the only one to be worshiped and served by any man alive.  This is clearly a sin that was the ultimate in control.  We all have the choice to revere, venerate, emulate, respect and worship.  As a matter of fact, we will do this worshiping of something as a human action to life itself.  The question is, who or what will you worship?  Will you worship the one that provides food for you, loves you with an everlasting love and commands your love for Him to define and support all expressions of love I your life?  This whole account of Jesus facing the devil in the middle of nowhere should tell us that the devil is waiting for you wherever you go hoping to find a place in life, time and circumstances and even devotion to challenge your ability to control the circumstances regardless to the will of God.  

        So, who is in really in control?  I am repeatedly reminded of the teaching in scripture to control myself, which takes a life-time to achieve. But I am still looking for the passage that calls for me to control circumstances around me.  Some may say that compelling people to come the Christ is controlling the circumstances, but this action of discipleship is done in obedience to God and love for the person with whom I am in community.  Who has the power to make things happen is not my concern, acknowledging that God is almighty is the ultimate challenge to life. And we are called to live it.
      We are not to control circumstance, groups nor people. We are not in control... 

Saturday, June 2, 2018

ACGR Pictures

We had a great time at the Care Giver Cruise!
     Retreat-Mates showed up and the presenters did an incredible job.
 We did take some pictures so take a look...




















Saturday, May 19, 2018

ACGR 2018 Agenda


ACGR 2018  Agenda
This year is the Care Giver Cruise
Date: May 25, 2018
Time: 9am – 5:30pm
Place: Stone Mountain Park, Across from The Gristmill Pavilion
Schedule:
9am Welcome and breakfast
Breakfast: Chick-Fil-A
Welcome to the 2018 Care Giver Cruise
Chaplain Horace Cutter Captain of the ship. The captain will challenge the Retreat-Mates to reflect on their gift of care giving. Accelerated Intimacy
10am Session 1. Shibana Cutter- The ship's Chief Medical Officer
Session led by first guide who will continue to layout the proper perspective on reflection and recollection.
10:40 Session 2. Play time
Play time- Time to move your body in the task of playing once again. Returning to the days when you loved to play with friends.
11:05 Morning break
11:10 Session 3 Betty Williams – The Ship's Special Officer- Compassion Fatigue
This session will help those in the helping profession recognize the symptoms of compassion fatigue and build a resilient self-care model. Retreat-mates will have the opportunity to engage in one of several strategies to cope with fatigue and burnout.
1:10 Lunch
1:40pm back to pavilion for reflection assignments: Refer to May 23rd for retreat assignments for reflection.... Captain will take a group Exploring the mountain and Train ride
From 1:40pm – 3:40pm tours and times for reflecting.
The evening sessions will focus on encouraging the participants to share some of their experiences while care giving.
3:40 Session 4 BJ Spanos --Ship's Special Officer- Care Giver Grief, Grief's myths and Misinformation; Let's Talk
James Wilson – From both sides of the equation…
4:20 Session 5 Shibana & Horace – Reflections on your day
4:40 Session 6 Chaplain Cutter challenge to care for the care giver
Care Giver Affirmation
5:30pm Closing
Chaplain Horace


Monday, May 14, 2018

Annual Care Giver Retreat Workshops

Leaders of the workshops for this year's ACGR 

BJ Spanos
     Certified Grief Recovery Specialist and Spiritual Director.  BJ will be leading the Retreat-mates on a journey of discovering what grief really is and what to do about it.  


Dr. Betty Williams 
     Marriage and family counselor, crisis counseling and has performed some teaching for colleges as an adjunct professor.  Has a counseling practice Care and Counseling Interventions.   Dr. Williams will hold a workshop on Compassion Fatigue, helping care givers to cope with the emotional stress that comes along with the tasks of Life on Life care. 


Shibana Cutter, FNP-BC
      Nurse practitioner for a local hospice and performing education and support to patients and families facing end of life decisions.  


James Wilson
      Hospital and hospice chaplain for St. Joseph's and a local hospice. Now a patient coping with Cancer.    Will offer a talk on how a physical care giver really looks to a patient.  


Chaplain Horace Cutter, BCPC
      Will open up the retreat helping care givers to understand the diversity of stress that Life on Life care places on them.  Will also cover the topics of  'Life on Life care',   'Accelerated Intimacy' and 'Emotional Informing'. Then lastly reviving your calling as a care giver. 

Friday, May 11, 2018

ACGR coming soon!!


We are looking forward to having a great time at the ACGR this year!!!


Do you plan to come?  Be sure to register today!! 


Captain Horace and Shibana Cutter are really excited about getting to know you 
at the ACGR this year.


Wednesday, May 9, 2018

ACGR Cruise (not a cruise) Prizes and gifts

     Getting Ready for the ACGR? 
If you have not been to the ACGR in the past, you may be very surprise to have your heart renewed in your calling. 

     


The aim of Chaplain and Shibana Cutter is to renew the hearts and spirits of professional care givers who do not receive consideration for the hard work that they do.  Caring for another person in the field of professional caring for people is tough.  Physical, Mental, Social and Spiritual Care is essential to the care of any individual.  Care givers are our patients who have carried the heavy burden of helping people with a myriad of activities for daily life.  

   We affirm what you do but more so, We Affirm Who You Are!


The Retreat is designed to offer support and space for Care Givers who work in the field of professional care giving. 

We will have food, gifts, fellowship and fun.


Will You Be there?

The ACGR is here for you!!!
  
Need more information?
    Look on previous post
     Look up Horace Cutter, Chaplain on Facebook
hcutter@swchristiancare.org

 
Ship Ahoy Matey !!!    
The Captain is looking for a seriously, fun time.