Thursday, February 25, 2021

Finding Support In the Crisis- Covid-19 Relief

 

The Unseen Enemy

   A reaction to the Coronavirus epidemic

From: Devotional - April 3, 2020

             When I look back on my life, I can remember many things that I have had to face.  Good relationships, challenging experiences, highs and very low lows that did make me feel small feeble and inadequate.  Let me tell you, this is how I have felt for a long time, as long as I can remember.  Just for one memory, I was in 3rd grade and out on the playground with all of the other 3rd graders.  I was playing with other kids as we all were out there playing together.   I can remember running after the ball to get it, I think we were playing kickball and another kid that I do not know looks at me and says, “Hey kid, you are supposed to be inside. The kindergarteners have all gone inside already.  This was my typical day in elementary school.  Being small feeble and inadequate. 

          Going through the challenges of being a small guy have been difficult to say the least but I have learned to cope with it pretty well.  But I did because I could see the challenge by knowing who to look out for or to view the issue at hand.  I have grown used to knowing who the enemy was by seeing them and reacting to them in person.  But in the event of this virus of today.  I can say that it is very unnerving to face what I cannot see and change my own behavior due to the word of mouth of reports on TV or internet or news from friends and family. 

           The unseen enemy is something that I have not gotten used to facing.  This is funny since I am a minister and do believe that we face Satan as the enemy of mankind.   As a Christian minister, I really do believe there is an unseen enemy, Satan and I have been preaching and practicing the reality of Satan’s presence in the world around me.  But a physical unseen enemy makes it even more insidious to what we know.   I guess I need to look at the show the Invisible man and how the people in the movie portrayed this presence of this person (just a thought).   Having an enemy that we all are reacting to is different than the presence of an evil spirit that plans to destroy my life.  I guess that is what this whole time reiterates for me.  That there is an unseen predator that is lurking behind any and maybe every corner to take us all down. 

           There is another way of facing the threat to life in this dangerous life and that is to turn from focusing on the unseen enemy and turn to face the unseen friend, The Holy Spirit.  The unseen enemy is real and a threat to life just like we have had other threats throughout history but me focusing on the threat and cowering until it comes to meet me at my front door is not the way to face the great challenges of life. I believe that we have the presence of the Holy Spirit here with us because He is even more real than the reality of the virus.  He is our unseen friend.   Jesus Christ promised at the time near his crucifixion that he would send the Holy Ghost to dwell with us.  He called Him the Comforter, now isn’t that appropriate?  

“And I will pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you forever.  Even the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because is seeth him not, neither knoweth him but ye know him; for he dwelleth with you, and shall be in you.  I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you.”  John 14:16-18

Jesus said that this Comforter would be with us forever and if we believe this, we must act appropriately.  I don’t believe that we are to act like there is no virus but to approach life with a sense of urgency in matters of responsibility, love and faith.  If we focus on the virus, we will certainly miss out on delivering love and patience to family and friends who need it.  If we turn to the Comforter and ask for ways to support our loved ones, there will be a better outcome.  When we turn towards the Comforter with a responsible attitude for who we are to care for or what we have been called to do, we can expect for the Comforter to help us to be responsible and not cower in fear.  The World (cosmos) will not have a sense of the presence of the Comforter because Jesus clearly said that the World doesn’t know Him nor do they see Him. 

        There is something else I have to say about the presence of the Holy Spirit.  Jesus said that He would reprove the world of sin, righteousness and judgment.  (John 16:8 with the word reprove, meaning > convince or convict).  If we think about it.  We are convicted by our own attitude towards the threats of the world.  Do we really believe that the Comforter is present with us or do we believe that we are the only help and source of strength in life?  A believer and unbeliever would answer this question differently. 

        We do not live with a focus on the threat but with a focus on our particular calling in life.  Turning to the unseen enemy we live in fear and looking over our shoulders at every curve in life.  But, Turning to the unseen friend, we can still live in a world where troubles are abounding on every hand.  The hope that we had in Jesus in the presence of the Holy Ghost is still the hope that He offers to His believers in the very midst of seen and unseen dangers.  Remember the song 'What a Friend we have in Jesus'   

Have we trials and temptations? Is there trouble anywhere?
We should never be discouraged; take it to the Lord in prayer.
Can we find a friend so faithful who will all our sorrows share?
Jesus knows our every weakness; take it to the Lord in prayer.

            A good look at the support of the Holy Ghost through the ages clearly teaches that God can handle what seen and unseen dangers we may face. 

       I began writing these thoughts back in April but now it is March.  What makes this significant is that my own father was on this side of eternity at that time as I turned over this idea for many months.  But before he passed, which was a sudden shock to us all, he told me that we walk by faith, not by sight.  This passage was one of my father’s favorite passages because I remember the passion that he had as he quoted to scripture reminding us that the gift of the Holy Ghost was a promise from Jesus.  This promise has been kept and the powerful presence of the Holy Spirit is what we need to remember as we face the Covid-19 virus.  Turning from focusing on the presence of the unseen enemy and turning towards the reality of the unseen friend who cares for our every need and will help us face all dangers.  No matter what they may be. 


Here are some important resources for the healthcare worker 


Pandemic Related Articles, Grief, Stress and Rumors

How ‘Anticipatory Grief’ May Show Up During the COVID-19 Outbreak (healthline.com)

 

Managing Healthcare Workers' Stress Associated with the COVID-19 Virus Outbreak - PTSD: National Center for PTSD (va.gov)

 

Team Health and Resiliency During the COVID-19 Pandemic | COVID-19 Response Resources Hub | Center to Advance Palliative Care (capc.org)

 

Managing Expectations in Uncertainty | Center to Advance Palliative Care (capc.org)

 

Workplace Wellness during Crisis

 

Health Care Workers In Crisis—Efforts Toward Normalizing A Sustainable Workplace Culture | Health Affairs

 

The Mental Health of Healthcare Workers in COVID-19 | Mental Health America (mhanational.org)

 

Managing Expectations in Uncertainty | Center to Advance Palliative Care (capc.org)

 

For Leadership considerations

 

Caring for our caregivers during COVID-19 | American Medical Association (ama-assn.org)

 

Collaborating for Organizational Wellness: Tips for Palliative Care Leaders | Center to Advance Palliative Care (capc.org)

 

The Mental Health of Healthcare Workers in COVID-19 | Mental Health America (mhanational.org)

 

Saturday, May 11, 2019

The Annual Care Giver Retreat!!

The Annual Care Giver Retreat 
is On The Way!! 

We are looking forward to having a great time at the ACGR this year!!!


Do you plan to come?  Be sure to register today!! 


Chaplain Horace and Shibana Cutter are really excited about getting to know you 
at the ACGR this year.




Extra! Extra! Extra! 

  The Convergence of Superheroes 
                Friday, May 31st 2019
The Annual Care Giver Retreat is on the way
                       Are you registered?   

    You can now register for the ACGR by app, text or computer...

Just go to Cash.me in the Google search site
    Sign in and setup a cash app account 
Attendance to the retreat is the cost of $25 but after registration after May 16 is $35 so register soon... 

     Send registration amount to $HmanChaplain
        Deposit:  $10.00
        You may pay the balance upon your arrival at retreat site.
     
     Great! Now you are registered for the ACGR !! 
                  Now -- Send Reply to Chaplain Cutter (hcutter@swchristiancare.org) or call 678-763-1871  to confirm registration.
Now you will receive a special instruction pack and information for the ACGR Care Giver mates !!  
      Received Only after registration...

   Do you have questions about the retreat? 
What to bring?
How to dress?
Who will be there?
How long will the sessions last?
Send a note to hmanchaplain@gmail.com 

Thursday, February 28, 2019

Reflections of Coping


Reflections in Coping

Ps 139:1-6
   "O LORD, you have searched me and you know me
    You know when I sit and when I rise;
        You perceive my thoughts from afar.  
    You discern my going out and my lying down;
        you are familiar with all my ways.
    Before a word is on my tongue
        you know it completely; O LORD."

These six verses from the 139th Psalm reveal something incredible about the understanding and knowledge of God.  The Psalmist is saying that God knows more about him than he knows about himself.  The human personality has been referred to with the picture of the iceberg.  I have some amazing pictures that show the pictures of the icebergs above and below the surface of the water.  Icebergs are massive in their size when looking out on the water, they are sometimes very tall and some flat.  But the reason that the human personality is referred to as an iceberg is that the part of the iceberg that you can see is only 20% of the whole piece of ice floating on the water.  Just imagine the biggest icebergs on the water only show 20% of what the whole thing is in size. 
     

We are very much like this and everyone knows this.  You can know a person for many years and still learn more about them each new day.  In counseling I find it astounding when I ask just a few questions and my client has a ‘light-bulb moment’.  That moment when they find that they have found out something new about their own personality.   I don't reveal it, they reveal it and I am there to witness them first understanding this truth about them that they never knew before. 
     

The Psalmist is saying in this passage that God already knows what we do know and the things that we don't know about ourselves.  There is nothing about me that God does not know.  This is important in coping with grief.   Grief is the reality of experiencing what is beneath the surface of the iceberg In You!  Coping with grief is, You exploring what is already under the surface to know yourself better and understand how you connect that reality with life.  The realities of life are sometimes too harsh and we need God to help us understand and settle in with who we are and how to maneuver through in a way that is pleasing to Him.
     

Are you turning to the Lord in your feelings?  Are you talking with Him in your journal or your secret closet?  Are you calling out to Him in prayer?  The great thing about God is that you don't always have to say anything while communicating with Him.  The Holy Ghost reveals what needs to be communicated and you can know that God is in the midst (Remember Romans 8:26-28).  This is why the Psalm here is so important.  God knows who we are and is willing to comfort us in the middle of our  time of self-discovery. The exciting and the dirty. This does usually looks so good and it can get rater ugly to understand yourself. But God…. He is good…

 He will support because he made you and you will find peace....

The Promise here is that God has searched me and knows everything above and below the surface of what is my own experience and how I relate to the reality in which I find myself. 
        God is not lacking in knowledge but He also is never lacking to offer comfort to the hurting.  

 

Friday, February 22, 2019

Come to the Convergence of Superheroes!

           


Are you registered for the ACGR?  
Chaplain and Shibana Cutter are looking forward to meeting you!
     




Come and Reflect, Refresh and Renew!  



The Retreat will take place on Fri. May 31st  from 9:00 am- 4:00pm, beginning with a mild breakfast, lunch on your own.  
The attendance fee for the Retreat is $25.00.  Register by May 15th Late registration after $35.00, (call Chaplain Cutter (770-969-8354) or (678-763-1871 or go to www.walkingtogethernow.blogspot.com  to pay online.

Participants will meet at Stone Mountain Park, GA:
1000 Robert E. Lee Blvd, Stone Mountain, GA 30083
   Meeting at the Gristmill Pavilion 

Download the Teamup app for connection to the Retreat Supers

What happens when Super heroes come together?



         When super heroes come together it’s not like when Doctors, or Lawyers or construction workers come together.  When these folks gather, it usually pertains to the upward /forward movement of a plan for a company or a certain goal. 
When Super Heroes gather we look around and say, “Oh boy, what is happening now?”  If you watch the movies, Super Heroes come together usually to solve a major problem that will affect the lives of people and devastate the world at large.   Just think, Superman can take care of the villains who want to accomplish an evil goal on the town or city or community.  But when Superman gets Batman and Wonder Woman together…. That means he needs help.



           When the super heroes get together, people’s lives are on the line and they are there to attack a huge problem in the world.
        It is important to recognize the real super heroes in our day.   Persons who deliver ‘life-on-life’ care.  You may have read my blog to see me use this term in the past.  I have a whole Theory on this idea of ‘life-on-life’ care. 

         Super heroes are people who give their special talents to support the lives of people whom they don’t even know.  They understand their responsibility to the populous for the greater good of all.  Mind you, a super hero is not just a person with those special abilities but someone who actually uses the powers he/she has to keep someone safe, comfort the soul of a hurting person or even stand in the way of oncoming agony or death. 

        The huge thing about the super hero is that they have to cope with the fact that they are different than other people.  They are just not the same.  They may look like others.  They may have human qualities but somehow they come to the conclusion that they are just different.  They cannot just pass by a huge problem and keep walking.  Remember when Peter Parker came to cope with this problem in one of the Spiderman movies?  He thought that he could just ignore the issues of life and just be a natural college student.  But that just did not work….
        
        As people who deliver Life-On-Life Care, you are a vehicle of hope for someone who needs sure support in real ways.  Somehow and for some reason God has chosen you to be affected by the maladies of life that touches another person.  And you cannot keep silent nor sit wanting to fulfill this task in life.
      Care givers are super heroes because it takes special inner skills to physically care for another person. 

       Your special abilities are so you can help people have a normal or close to normal life.  And they really appreciate that.  But you are not impervious to the human suffering that you address.   If you know much about the supers, you know that each of them has a vice.  Something, someone or some issue that, if it comes up or is brought into the area around the superhero, will stop him/her from using her powers for the good of others.  You are like this too….

       So, what is your Kryptonite?  What issue can stop you from performing your task of care giving?  Only you know but there are other supers who can help you to get beyond the problem of your vice so that you can get on to doing good with your special task in life.  We will continue this after you consider this important task of reflection.
     Continued later…..


    


Extra! Extra! Extra! 

The Annual Care Giver Retreat is on the way
May 31, 2019
                       Are you registered?   

    You can now register for the ACGR by app, text or computer...

Just go to Cash.me in the Google search site
    Sign in and setup a cash app account 
     Send registration amount to $HmanChaplain
        Registration $10.00
        You may pay the balance upon your arrival at retreat site.
     Retreat full admission $25.00 before May 15th or $35.00 after May 15th. 
     
     Great! Now you are registered for the ACGR !! 
                  Now -- Send Reply to Chaplain Cutter (hcutter@swchristiancare.org) or call 678-763-1871  to confirm registration.
Now you will receive a special instruction pack and information for the ACGR Care Giver Convergence of Superheroes !! 
      Received Only after registration...

   Do you have questions about the retreat? 
What to bring?
How to dress?
Who will be there?
How long will the sessions last?
Send a note to hmanchaplain@gmail.com